In the 21 century Irish individual, when did grow as a personal experience and at what age would you say you first came to see yourself as a person with the characteristics?

In the 21 century Irish individual, when did grow as a personal experience and at what age would you say you first came to see yourself as a person with the characteristics? Did you become aware of these aspects of Your identity at different ages and to others who are different from the perspective of belonging to those like you?